No huamn being, now or before,can remain or make one's life without relating to the world.Relating is both inevitable and a necessity. When it is inevitable, then one should necessarily know how to relate without being bound. A relationship is built only by relating and it invollves understanding. When you understand your own limitations, your mind and everything about it is very clear to you, then you ac cept the other person's virtues and are kind to his or her limitations. You then have aprreciation, love, compassion, understanding and freedom in relationship.